Situationship Text Analyzer
Are we dating, or is this a situationship? Your chat will not give you a label, but it can show you the pattern: who puts in the effort, who makes plans, and whether it stays steady.
📤 Check my situationship chatFree preview, full report optional. An AI read for fun and reflection.
Why a situationship is hard to read from inside
A situationship feels confusing because the signals are mixed on purpose, or by accident. One warm evening can cancel out a week of silence in your head. That makes it hard to see the overall shape.
Looking at weeks of messages together gives you something steadier than a feeling. The analyzer counts and compares, so you can see what the conversation actually looks like.
Chat signals that matter in a situationship
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Effort balance
Whether both of you write, reply and show interest at a similar level, or one person carries the chat.
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Who starts
Who opens the conversation after a quiet gap, and whether that is shared.
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Plans or vague talk
Whether the chat turns into real plans, or stays at "we should hang out sometime".
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Consistency over weeks
Whether contact is steady, or comes in bursts followed by silence.
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Questions asked
Whether the other person asks about your life, not only answers yours.
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Late-night-only pattern
Whether most of the talking happens late at night, and little during the day.
How to check your situationship chat
1. Pick how to add the chat
On the home page, use an export file, paste the text, or add screenshots. A longer chat shows more of the pattern.
2. Enter names and email
Add both names and your email, then submit the chat.
3. Read the free preview
See the signals the AI found. A full report is optional.
What it can and cannot tell you
The analyzer describes how the conversation behaves. It cannot say what the other person wants, or whether you are in a situationship. It also only sees the chat, not time spent together, calls or what happens offline.
Some people are simply poor texters, and some relationships are warm in person and quiet in text. Treat the result as one point of view.
Using what you see
If the chat shows steady effort and real plans, that is encouraging. If it is uneven, vague and mostly late at night, it may be worth asking directly what you both want. A calm conversation will tell you more than any chart.
Crush Analyzer gives an AI read of your chat, made for fun and reflection. It is not a guarantee of how anyone feels, and it cannot read minds. Use it as one more point of view, not as a verdict. See also our Privacy Policy.
Questions
Can this tell me if it is a situationship?+
No. It shows patterns in the chat, such as effort and plans. Only a direct conversation can tell you what the two of you are.
What is the biggest signal to look at?+
No single one. Effort balance, plans and consistency over several weeks matter more together than any one message.
Does the late-night pattern mean anything?+
It can be worth noticing, but it can also just be someone's schedule. Read it alongside the other signals.
Which chat formats can I use?+
Export files, pasted text or screenshots. Screenshots have no timestamps, so timing charts are left out.
Will the other person know?+
Crush Analyzer does not contact them. You add your own copy of the conversation.
Is it free?+
There is a free preview. The full report is paid and optional.